tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-85727575083100898902023-11-16T11:01:23.507-05:00Faith, Funnies, PhillyAnd whatever else catches my fancyMs. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.comBlogger334125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-68135193625296717642014-07-31T16:46:00.001-04:002014-07-31T20:05:24.119-04:00Benjamin Franklin, The Whistle<div class="tr_bq">
Came across a portion of this story while at the <a href="http://www.nps.gov/inde/planyourvisit/benjaminfranklinmuseum.htm">Benjamin Franklin Museum</a> and knew I wanted to share it in its entirety. This story is an excerpt from a letter to his friend Madame Brillon.</div>
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When I was a child of seven years old, my friends, on a holiday, filled my pocket with coppers. I went directly to a shop where they sold toys for children; and being charmed with the sound of a whistle, that I met by the way in the hands of another boy, I voluntarily offered and gave all my money for one. I then came home, and went whistling all over the house, much pleased with my whistle, but disturbing all the family. My brothers, and sisters, and cousins, understanding the bargain I had made, told me I had given four times as much for it as it was worth; put me in mind what good things I might have bought with the rest of the money; and laughed at me so much for my folly, that I cried with vexation; and the reflection gave me more chagrin than the whistle gave me pleasure.This, however, was afterwards of use to me, the impression continuing on my mind; so that often, when I was tempted to buy some unnecessary thing, I said to myself, Don’t give too much for the whistle; and I saved my money.As I grew up, came into the world, and observed the actions of men, I thought I met with many, very many, who gave too much for the whistle.<br />
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When I saw one too ambitious of court favor, sacrificing his time in attendance on levees, his repose, his liberty, his virtue, and perhaps his friends, to attain it, I have said to myself, this man gives too much for his whistle.<br />
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When I saw another fond of popularity, constantly employing himself in political bustles, neglecting his own affairs, and ruining them by that neglect, "He pays, indeed," said I, "too much for his whistle."<br />
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If I knew a miser, who gave up every kind of comfortable living, all the pleasure of doing good to others, all the esteem of his fellow-citizens, and the joys of benevolent friendship, for the sake of accumulating wealth, "Poor man," said I, "you pay too much for your whistle."<br />
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When I met with a man of pleasure, sacrificing every laudable improvement of the mind, or of his fortune, to mere corporeal sensations, and ruining his health in their pursuit, "Mistaken man," said I, "you are providing pain for yourself, instead of pleasure; you give too much for your whistle."<br />
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If I see one fond of appearance, or fine clothes, fine houses, fine furniture, fine equipages, all above his fortune, for which he contracts debts, and ends his career in a prison, "Alas!" say I, "he has paid dear, very dear, for his whistle."<br />
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When I see a beautiful sweet-tempered girl married to an ill-natured brute of a husband, "What a pity," say I, "that she should pay so much for a whistle!"<br />
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In short, I conceive that great part of the miseries of mankind are brought upon them by the false estimates they have made of the value of things, and by their giving too much for their whistles.<br />
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Yet I ought to have charity for these unhappy people, when I consider that, with all this wisdom of which I am boasting, there are certain things in the world so tempting, for example, the apples of King John, which happily are not to be bought; for if they were put to sale by auction, I might very easily be led to ruin myself in the purchase, and find that I had once more given too much for the whistle.</blockquote>
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Text was found <a href="http://www.valueinvestingworld.com/2009/02/ben-franklin-3-essays-ephemera-whistle.html">here</a><br />
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Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-58168562244610528952014-07-23T18:43:00.002-04:002014-07-23T18:44:04.996-04:00Nora Calhoun on Learning From Bodies<blockquote class="tr_bq">
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<br />Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-63985926381063942612014-07-17T21:36:00.000-04:002014-07-17T22:26:55.275-04:00The new racism: Racism without "racists"<div class="tr_bq" style="text-align: left;">
<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">I consider myself a "minor minority." Racism discussions in America tend to center on the big three: White, Black, Latino. Most Americans think of a Chinese or Korean person when they hear the word Asian, so as an American of Indian descent, it's pretty easy to fly under the radar. Because I am used to looking different than everyone around me almost everywhere I go and because I lean more towards curious than fearful when it comes to learning about other cultures, I am very interested in the dynamics of interactions between races. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">Plus, I am a nosy people watcher, but also very quiet. I tend to take on an invisible quality, so people often say or do things around me I don't think they would around one of the big three. White people talk to me about black people. Black people talk to me about white people. I watch how the Latinos and Koreans who run the corner stores in West Philly interact with the mostly African American clientele. I watch as people awkwardly stumble over whether to say black or African American. I see Africans who don't want to be associated with African Americans. I watch Asians of various stripes obsessed with keeping their skin as light as can be. I've been in Indian churches where you would think they are reading Bibles that replaced Israel with India. I've been in white suburban churches that foolishly think they have not taken on cultural elements. I've been asked if I've ever shot a bow and arrow or whether I was from Indochina and if my parents were illegal immigrants, from church people no less! :-)</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">All this to say, I don't get too uncomfortable around these discussions. I find them fascinating. Sometimes sad. Often eye-roll inducing. And this blog post isn't going to be a dissection. Perhaps one day I will write my street-level observations. For now I will fall back on leaving a quote, because I find it good to chew on and also because I am getting sleepy and don't feel like writing anymore.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; line-height: 33px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;">The new racism: Racism without "racists." Today, racial segregation and division often result from habits, policies, and institutions that are not explicitly designed to discriminate. Contrary to popular belief, discrimination or segregation do not require animus. They thrive even in the absence of prejudice or ill will. It’s common to have racism without racists. </span></span><span style="background-color: white; box-sizing: border-box; line-height: 33px; text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Times, Times New Roman, serif;"><br /></span></span><br />
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You can read more quotes on racism <a href="http://thoughtcatalog.com/erin-cossetta/2014/04/quotes-that-perfectly-explain-racism-to-people-who-dont-see-color/">here</a>. </span><br />
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P.S. - I love you all. God made us so different and that is wonderful! Truly! Don't be ashamed of whatever color you are. Don't hate on others. And slam awkwardly into one another more often socially. Maybe it will feel weird at first, or even for awhile. Keep doing it. It's good for you. And it's right. And to all the darker skinned girls chilling in white churches that never get asked out, God sees you, even if that sweet, nerdy guy in your Bible Study who throws around words like eschatology doesn't. And don't worry if you never are chosen to be a wife and mother, you'll get bigger mansions in heaven. (Calm down y'all. It's a joke.)</span><br />
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When I mentioned to my father that my passport was no longer valid, he insisted I update it immediately. He knows I just sit in my cubicle year after year while the passport just chills in a desk drawer, but immigrant parents always want you to be prepared to flee the country. So I went online, printed out the necessary forms, read all the frequently asked questions like a good nerd, and did the required amount of grumbling about how much money it would cost. Still, I started to get excited. Even if it meant traveling solo, I was determined (determined!) that the new passport would be littered with stamps.<br />
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And if I'm being completely honest, I was also really looking forward to having an updated photo. With my brown skin and thick brows and non-smiling expression, I looked a little like a terrorist in the old photo (Note to the NSA: I am NOT a terrorist. Even when I simply think of spitting my gum out onto the sidewalk while walking because all the flavor is long gone and the toughness is causing my jaw to ache, I feel guilty and hold it until an appropriate receptacle is available. I am a rule follower and respect all authority figures, even the parking authority). Since the rules called for a neutral expression in the photo, I practiced different ways to smile without actually smiling (warm eyes and the slightest upturn of the corners of the mouth).<br />
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I brought the old passport to work and showed the photo to a few people, confident that I would return from lunch with fabulous new photos and that we would all be stunned by the before and after. My brows were did, the Bobbi Brown foundation was carefully applied that morning, and I wore my favorite sophisticated red lipstick (Afghan Red by Nars).<br />
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I marched on over to my favorite store of all time, CVS pharmacy, and there was thankfully no wait in the photo center. But from there it rapidly went downhill. The clerk had me take my glasses off. Remember that scene from <i>She's All That</i> when Rachel Leigh Cook's character walks down the stairs with her glasses finally off and is magically gorgeous? Now imagine the complete opposite and that was me. My glasses stay on my face at all times. I do not wear contacts. I do not simply wear them to read. They only come off once I go to bed at night or in the shower. I vaguely remembered the FAQ stating glasses could remain on, but because I was not certain and because of my aforementioned respect for even low level authority figures, I did as told.<br />
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Apparently it threw me off my game entirely because the photos were printed right then, and instead of smiling with my eyes, they went cross-eyed. CROSS-EYED! I forgot to turn the corners of my mouth upwards and managed to look stern, confused, and bloated. I didn't even think that combination was possible!<br />
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I am aware of how vain this all sounds. And I also know the best thing for the sake of this little story would be to attach the photo. But I'm still single y'all and I'm not that dumb. I need a lesson in photo fierceness from the hot felon.<br />
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<br />Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-88490336397992217992014-07-11T21:49:00.000-04:002014-07-11T21:49:29.925-04:00I Shall Not Want - Audrey AssadA quiet, contemplative song to end the week.<br />
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<br />Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-8326045683193914482014-07-07T20:33:00.003-04:002014-07-07T20:38:36.048-04:00Gender Dominance in ConversationIt was interesting reading this article, especially after a recent conversation with a female friend who went through a very similar situation at a leadership development course.<br />
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I routinely find myself in mixed-gender environments (life) where men interrupt me. Now that I've decided to try and keep track, just out of curiosity, it's quite amazing how often it happens. It's particularly pronounced when other men are around. </blockquote>
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This irksome reality goes along with another -- men who make no eye contact. For example, a waiter who only directs information and questions to men at a table, or the man last week who simply pretended I wasn't part of a circle of five people (I was the only woman). We'd never met before and barely exchanged 10 words, so it couldn't have been my not-so-shrinking-violet opinions. </blockquote>
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These two ways of establishing dominance in conversation, frequently based on gender, go hand-in-hand with this last one: A woman, speaking clearly and out loud, can say something that no one appears to hear, only to have a man repeat it minutes, maybe seconds later, to accolades and group discussion.</blockquote>
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<br />Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-46967666342267746032012-02-17T22:45:00.000-05:002012-02-17T23:23:43.635-05:00BenedictionAt then end of an exhausting week, when I am weary, passages like the one below are a source of great comfort. Praise God, whose grip never wavers. May the Lord bless you and keep you.<br /><br /><blockquote>Now to him who is able to keep you from stumbling and to present you blameless before the presence of his glory with great joy, to the only God, our Savior, through Jesus Christ our Lord, be glory, majesty, dominion, and authority, before all time and now and forever. Amen.<br /><br />Jude 1:24-25</blockquote><br /><br />.<br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-62497352642396268042011-07-19T20:38:00.000-04:002011-07-19T20:50:14.737-04:00I want this kid's attitude<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYltSHl4jBROnR_ybnb5BZCs_ERWw8F2FKUaUGipZGW2ETRNzTKxkcN0SqNxNXA3WU9I6JLhhqt1gOvhgZ9rdTNxK1u9btzW1x2K4G0BeV-Yvyu2n8ydbtd5T5P7NNi0jWI6a3O3eyCtaa/s1600/Nemanja+Vidic+chubby+asian+kid+boy+cute.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 354px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYltSHl4jBROnR_ybnb5BZCs_ERWw8F2FKUaUGipZGW2ETRNzTKxkcN0SqNxNXA3WU9I6JLhhqt1gOvhgZ9rdTNxK1u9btzW1x2K4G0BeV-Yvyu2n8ydbtd5T5P7NNi0jWI6a3O3eyCtaa/s400/Nemanja+Vidic+chubby+asian+kid+boy+cute.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5631227658812641810" /></a><br /><br />Above is Nemanja Vidic with a cute, chubby, awesome Asian kid. I want to walk through life with the energy and fierceness of that little boy. I already have the Asian and chubby part down, now it's time for me to work on the awesome factor. Below is a little clip of him in action.<br /><br /><iframe width="480" height="390" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/kwuSlP8FYmI" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br /><br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-89508762444034135252011-05-31T17:59:00.000-04:002011-07-11T21:56:27.594-04:00Child Beauty Pageant Buffoonery<iframe width="560" height="349" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/KOX87Fn7eLo" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br /><br /><br />My favorite lines:<br /><br /><blockquote>A stick horse...it's a lot different because you have to do all the work and I think it's going to be a lot more tiring...than with a real horse.<br /><br />Kylie Felter<br /></blockquote><br />I agree Kylie. It <span style="font-style:italic;">is</span> much more work for you to skip and canter around the cones on your own legs. I hope you will be kinder to horses now that you've trotted a mile in their hooves. (And may I suggest you respectfully ask your parents to sit out any future competitions that are canceled due to horse herpes.)<br /><br /><br /><blockquote>If you happen to have a problem like this later in life you already have the experience of riding a stick horse!<br /><br />Savanna Steed</blockquote><br /><br />Savanna, may you never have this problem again. I pray the solution to your future problems will never, ever, be riding around in a glittery outfit on a stick horse. (Also, with your last name, it would be sweet poetic justice if you ended up the winner.)<br /><br />Let me make it clear, I think the girls made the best of the situation. My issue is with the parents and officials who thought this was an appropriate plan B. Testing their poise and adaptability?! More like lazy planning. Seriously, were there no other horses in the entire state of Utah available for this junior queen competition?! It's cowboy country out there! Surely there were some ponies or donkeys or mules or big-boned sheep or obese dogs that could have stood in as substitutes. <br /><br />I'm not sure whether I should admire or be disturbed by everyone's ability to keep a straight face through that entire news segment.<br />.<br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-73806307524888479572011-03-28T20:39:00.000-04:002011-03-28T21:32:14.199-04:00LyricsThis is how you can ensure I will not read your tweets, facebook status updates, or blog posts - simply post song lyrics. Snore. Boring. And yet, I'm about to engage in a little hypocrisy and post some lines from a song. <br /><br /><blockquote>From this one place I can't see very far<br />In this one moment I'm square in the dark<br />These are the things I will trust in my heart<br />You can see something else<br />Something else<br /><br />Sara Groves, From This One Moment</blockquote><br /><br />Remembering that God knows what my next steps are <br /><br />Remembering that He sees me specifically <br /><br />Remembering that He is good<br /><br /><br />Twenty eight is not quite looking like I expected. In the midst of my uncertain outlook, I will trust in my heart that He can see something else. And that His something else is better than my something else.<br />.<br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-5107006467866551982011-03-27T19:52:00.000-04:002011-03-27T19:54:06.168-04:00Hire These Guys...the next time you need to keep order and establish peace.<br /><br /><iframe title="YouTube video player" width="480" height="390" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/ybVb3t560oY" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><br /><br />HT: Tastefully Offensive<br />.<br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-82805179198302961382011-02-15T22:24:00.000-05:002011-02-15T22:27:41.842-05:00Two of My LovesI can make it pretty far in life if I have the below<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbzoI6lcauD6TuG-8TPaF_9HJrBh1bKZCPwOehMO0fgpdV2GllnYDJZp8RUNHAsBRDXlQ5CTbJcOcMJosAVkRi9kS9smkRlR-29GhPQPbFUSvxlrg9pNTs6PqAEZxQzqxdPnm2SWJoGN5b/s1600/tacos.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 295px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgbzoI6lcauD6TuG-8TPaF_9HJrBh1bKZCPwOehMO0fgpdV2GllnYDJZp8RUNHAsBRDXlQ5CTbJcOcMJosAVkRi9kS9smkRlR-29GhPQPbFUSvxlrg9pNTs6PqAEZxQzqxdPnm2SWJoGN5b/s400/tacos.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5574123617600794978" /></a><br /><br /><br />HT: Tastefully OffensiveMs. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-69830443307527460602011-02-14T19:08:00.000-05:002011-02-14T19:11:05.855-05:00A Love Song for Valentine's DayAxis of Awesome tell you how to write a love song. Occasional foul language, so keep younger ears away.<br /><br /><object width="500" height="320" classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000"><param name="movie" value="http://player.ordienetworks.com/flash/fodplayer.swf" /><param name="flashvars" value="key=5f0cf25368" /><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /><embed width="500" height="320" flashvars="key=5f0cf25368" allowfullscreen="true" quality="high" src="http://player.ordienetworks.com/flash/fodplayer.swf" type="application/x-shockwave-flash"></embed></object><div style="text-align:center;width:500px;"><a href="http://www.funnyordie.com/videos/5f0cf25368/how-to-write-a-love-song" title="from FOD Team, axisofawesome, Brad, and kirsten barrie">The Axis of Awesome: How to Write a Love Song</a> - watch more <a href="http://www.funnyordie.com/" title="on Funny or Die">funny videos</a></div><br /><br />HT: <a href="http://thedailywh.at/">The Daily What</a>Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-64044997921230245612011-02-13T13:16:00.000-05:002011-02-13T14:36:23.599-05:00Pets and PracticalityMy sister and I begged for a pet dog through most of our childhood. We were denied each time. I think perhaps my mom would have caved in eventually if we had asked for a cat instead, but my father was resolute and immovable. He had no problem letting us cry in pet stores, making fools of ourselves as we left the mall weeping. They didn't believe we would care for it adequately, and they're right. When <span style="font-style:italic;">people</span> throw up I run the other way, so I am certainly not going to comfort a dog during a distressing digestive episode. <br /><br />In a small moment of sympathy, or more likely snarky humor, my dad instead bought me an encyclopedia about canines and a ceramic dog that he placed outside the the front door of our home. Foolish, foolish idea on his part. I read the whole thing several times. I was now armed with stories of dogs throughout history that loyally stood by their masters, even dying for them. I studied all the various breeds, trying to decide objectively which would be the best fit for our family. I even read all the sections on specific training tips and was certain I could have any dog following my commands within a day or so. How could he say no now? No longer was I simply a crying kid, but I was now armed with facts and logic.<br /><br />He still did not buy us a dog.<br /><br />What made this even worse was that fact that both my parents grew up with several dogs! And cats! And birds, goats, and chickens! That's how they roll back in the motherland. The hypocrisy made me want to cry! And so I did. He still didn't budge.<br /><br />Now my dad is not some cold, animal-hating, PETA-bashing guy, but he takes a much more practical view when it comes to pets. The dogs he had in India, while loved and well cared for, had a job. These dogs were there to protect the family home and to bite any crazies that may make it past the gates. And trust me, there were crazies. These dogs stayed outside and had plenty of land to run around. While today pets are often treated as luxury items, they were an essential form of income and protection to many families of prior generations. <br /><br />In fact, I realized that my dad respects dogs much more than I do. He thinks they should be able to run around. He thinks they <span style="font-style:italic;">should</span> bark, as it shows spirit and serves as a warning to intruders. His dogs had roles to play, and thus were not lazy or spoiled. And to him, if dogs could not have the freedom to be dogs because of lack of space or noise-sensitive neighbors, it would be cruel to bring one into the family. And you know what, I think dogs want to be useful and treated like an animal, not a child. Have you seen those dogs that women carry around in expensive bags? Their eyes cry out for rescue. You can sense they feel shame at being treated like a toy. Dogs, even small dogs, can serve a practical purpose.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-SwGbAw3r4qW0oQgGA-nKHRQ39Xs5_q1GUcTpnB8-Bv4YvxV9qJP-jOzOG3d2vUXlVBetKGxaDHA6_yIIDJhbiLtPpIL3qEhx4Fr131ZNh6B0OkTDTt-9qo0ToWHRrhur_YIS-LtEkrrs/s1600/Kid+with+pug.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 267px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi-SwGbAw3r4qW0oQgGA-nKHRQ39Xs5_q1GUcTpnB8-Bv4YvxV9qJP-jOzOG3d2vUXlVBetKGxaDHA6_yIIDJhbiLtPpIL3qEhx4Fr131ZNh6B0OkTDTt-9qo0ToWHRrhur_YIS-LtEkrrs/s400/Kid+with+pug.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5573256642612490626" /></a><br /><br />Has a pug ever stood prouder?<br /><br />In the end we never did get a dog. I guess my dad was looking out for them. My sister managed to whine often enough and loudly enough to score a few hamsters that she sometimes walked around the neighborhood. And that ceramic dog, it still sits outside their front door, protecting them from intruders.<br />.<br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-7266531066846536272011-01-18T21:13:00.000-05:002011-01-18T21:24:20.683-05:00Starbucks SupersizedSo the new Trenta-sized beverages at Starbucks are more than your stomach can probably handle, at least in one shot. Seriously America, why do you want that much coffee in your system!!! Do you hate your bladder? You'll have to work all day from the porcelain throne! Be kind to your stomach. Don't buy this unless you plan to nurse it for a week or you plan on splitting it between five coworkers. <br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdv-WrSuO2rlYzjKLIxB983mNHM-OhaO5kWTwTKApoUCvI82SzOVEasrOAiIBVY-roznvZr7RLrroO_CGKMWpZMyB_QMhHg84Bf12fLIV5vF7GDHImnFESdo23nn0gPkWl1bAg909IBWnW/s1600/starbucks.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 351px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgdv-WrSuO2rlYzjKLIxB983mNHM-OhaO5kWTwTKApoUCvI82SzOVEasrOAiIBVY-roznvZr7RLrroO_CGKMWpZMyB_QMhHg84Bf12fLIV5vF7GDHImnFESdo23nn0gPkWl1bAg909IBWnW/s400/starbucks.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5563716713494709682" /></a><br /> via: <a href="http://thedailywh.at/">The Daily What</a><br />.<br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-13727251139360920482011-01-06T23:04:00.000-05:002011-01-06T23:06:12.677-05:00Chinese / Malaysian Puppy LoveThis is just about the cutest anti-racism ad ever<br /><br /><object width="480" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/UehSJlOQj2I?fs=1&hl=en_US"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/UehSJlOQj2I?fs=1&hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object><br /><br />.<br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-14161829430165067482010-12-30T16:33:00.000-05:002010-12-30T16:36:01.703-05:00Health Tip for the New YearYou may want to check with your doctor before following the below regimen<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh124MMqHtNPZbgXbs6p8jfLJRzSnrUvOBNnk6cvr2lwvdS9EQcWUzD3H4pjzb4VbnHQkyN_EjI0pAP7-quzNow5xF5vn7w6UVc8WRhKwFJtAc88MhvdUkNSF9yrJ7SIfu9_LjqhQVpWqEm/s1600/fortune+cookie.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 204px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh124MMqHtNPZbgXbs6p8jfLJRzSnrUvOBNnk6cvr2lwvdS9EQcWUzD3H4pjzb4VbnHQkyN_EjI0pAP7-quzNow5xF5vn7w6UVc8WRhKwFJtAc88MhvdUkNSF9yrJ7SIfu9_LjqhQVpWqEm/s400/fortune+cookie.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5556592046330397410" /></a><br /><br />HT: Tastefully Offensive<br />.<br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-43247701881538234162010-12-24T11:58:00.000-05:002010-12-24T12:01:54.587-05:00Christmas ConnectionThere is a special bond between Jewish Americans and Chinese restaurants at Christmas time.<br /><br />Go read the <a href="http://twentytwowords.com/2010/12/23/a-message-from-the-chinese-restaurateurs-association-to-the-jewish-people/">thank you note</a>.<br />.<br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-43595062416308368662010-12-11T21:35:00.000-05:002010-12-14T18:12:33.936-05:00Conflicting EmotionsI love when no one sits next to me on the train. More space for me and my stuff! My bag doesn't have to touch the nasty floor and I don't have to worry about being squished up against the window if a large man plops himself down.<br /><br />But...<br /><br />Then I start to wonder why no one sat next to me. I mean, I smell good, and at 5'2, if they choose my row, they would have a decent bit of space to stretch out. I feel like a kid getting picked last for the team. <br /><br />Don't sit next to me! Please sit next to me!<br />.<br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-63924114307653671782010-11-09T17:55:00.000-05:002010-11-09T18:46:00.294-05:00Adult OnesieMy parents recently returned from a missions trip to India, so I decided to call and see how they were recovering from jet lag. My dad picks up and we proceed to shoot the breeze for a few minutes. I can hear my sister in the background, so I ask him how she is doing. I expect a casual response, along the lines of, "She's fine" or "She just got back from work." Instead this is what he tells me...<br /><br /><blockquote>Dad: She is showing me her onesie.<br />Me: A onesie??!!<br />Dad: She is wearing it. All she needs now is a diaper.<br /></blockquote><br />I made this phone call while walking through the Macy's on my way home from work. So now I am walking through the store, past the men buying shoes and boxers, laughing hysterically at the thought of my little sister in a onesie.<br /><br />I proceed to shoot her a text.<br /><br /><blockquote>Me: Seriously Sheryl, a onesie??<br />Sheryl: It's an "adult sleeper." Yes, and it is nice and warm and comfy.<br />Me: What color?<br />Sheryl: Black</blockquote><br /><br />I'm thinking to myself, "That's not so bad. It's like a jumpsuit. Those are kind of in right now." A few seconds go by and then another text comes in...<br /><br /><blockquote>Sheryl: With penguins on it<br /></blockquote><br />The blogger in me immediately wants to get home and write about it. The kind sister in me decides not to as I don't want to embarrass her before the world wide webs. <br /><br /><blockquote>Me: I really wish u would let me blog about it, but I am guessing u won't<br />Sheryl: I don't care if u blog about it, I like my sleeper!<br /></blockquote><br />Notice how she keeps calling it a "sleeper?" It almost tricks you into thinking it is normal. Almost...<br /><br /><blockquote>Me: Props for not being ashamed<br />Sheryl: Goodness, what's there to be ashamed about!? I even wore it to the Halloween party.<br /></blockquote><br />She wore it in public! In PUBLIC!! My 5'8, twenty-four year old sister, who teaches at the university level, wore a black onesie decorated with penguins out in public. Granted, it was Halloween, but still!<br /><br />She then asks if I am ashamed of her, and I can honestly say that I am not ashamed. I tell her that I actually admire her bravery. <br /><br /><blockquote>Sheryl: Seriously, what's so brave about adult footies...They're long, warm, and great for the end of the year. I'm telling u, one has not lived till they purchase one...</blockquote><br /><br />I have a strange feeling she is going to buy me one for Christmas...<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgh047vPipYDKUaO-OhOrXQUblBuk19BLEs7l15YbhZX5mH0TS_sybJDs82AXmR0b3qMQQp2zrcQTanJcVIQFhWGxkE_zqjLh35lKuOjyHJ2RT4RsRH-r3Gq2PyP1VTDk6XS9R7Rjv1V9ND/s1600/Onesie.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgh047vPipYDKUaO-OhOrXQUblBuk19BLEs7l15YbhZX5mH0TS_sybJDs82AXmR0b3qMQQp2zrcQTanJcVIQFhWGxkE_zqjLh35lKuOjyHJ2RT4RsRH-r3Gq2PyP1VTDk6XS9R7Rjv1V9ND/s400/Onesie.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5537700247397999186" /></a>Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-88266193412629569592010-11-03T22:36:00.000-04:002010-11-03T22:47:57.884-04:00Envy...is more than simply wanting what belongs to others. It often goes to the extreme of wanting "x" to be taken away from them.<br /><br />...in my heart means I functionally believe that God is not good to me, though I may say so with my lips.<br /><br />...is ugly<br /><br />...destroys friendships or hinders them from beginning in the first place<br /><br />...leads to murder, certainly in the heart, sometimes also by our hands<br /><br /><blockquote>Envy never produces more trust in God or more active love for others. Envy is vertically dissatisfied and horizontally discompassionate.<br /><br />Paul Tripp</blockquote><br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-89489191168010394152010-10-28T20:05:00.000-04:002010-10-28T20:20:14.577-04:00Utter Folly<object width="480" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/txIO8CkQeQU?fs=1&hl=en_US"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/txIO8CkQeQU?fs=1&hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object><br /><br />I'll admit, it's kind of cute. Big killer cat nuzzling up to his rescuer. But seriously people, we need to stop trying to cuddle with creatures that are capable of biting our heads off with one chomp. Lions (and tigers and bears, oh my!) are not our friends! They will kill you. It's not their fault. Stop this foolishness. He was probably sniffing her to see whether he wanted to eat her!<br /><br />Does no one remember Siegfried and Roy??<br />.<br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-1679412262469501082010-10-24T13:59:00.000-04:002010-10-24T14:05:51.372-04:00Sunday QuoteThankful for pastors who approach Sunday with prayer, preparation, and humility.<br /><br /><blockquote>We are dealing with God's thoughts: we are obligated to take the greatest pains to understand them truly and to explain them clearly.<br /><br />— D.A. Carson</blockquote><br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-48198966362737279952010-10-19T19:09:00.001-04:002010-10-19T19:11:40.592-04:00Donkey vs ElephantI am not a registered republican. I am not a registered democrat. I'm thinking about joining this guy's political party.<br /><br /><object width="480" height="385"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/x4o-TeMHys0?fs=1&hl=en_US"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/x4o-TeMHys0?fs=1&hl=en_US" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="480" height="385"></embed></object><br /><br />HT: to the blog that makes me aware of all the fun videos, <a href="http://twentytwowords.com/">22 Words</a><br />.<br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8572757508310089890.post-11782774229861436282010-10-11T20:42:00.000-04:002010-10-24T14:07:29.583-04:00In Fourteen Hundred Ninety-Two...This morning, like every Monday morning, I gathered together the trash from my apartment, tied the bag securely shut, and marched down the three flights of stairs to place it on the curb. My inner monologue upon exiting the house:<br /><br /><blockquote>Why does no one else have their trash out? Did the truck already swing by? That can't be - it's not even 8am. Hmmm....Oh wait...It's Columbus Day.</blockquote><br /><br />I proceeded to march right back up the three flights of stairs.<br /><br />After work I hopped on the subway to commute home. It was an unusually warm day and I found myself with a longer than normal wait. My inner monologue:<br /><br /><blockquote>Where is the train? I don't even see the light at the end of the tunnel from the next approaching one. (plays with iPhone, plays with iPhone) Finally! Hmmm...how come this train isn't crowded? How come the body odor is at a tolerable level? Oh wait...it's Columbus Day.</blockquote><br /><br />Then I marched on home, marched up the three flights of stairs (for the 2nd time), and because I am a gourmand, made myself a peanut butter and jelly sandwich for dinner. I decided to fight the Monday evening sluggishness by checking out a new class in my neighborhood. I walked down the street and stopped outside the building. My inner monologue:<br /><br /><blockquote>Hmmm...how come the lights aren't on? Is the entrance around the back? Is this the right address?? Is this the right time? Am I losing it?? Oh wait...it's Columbus Day</blockquote><br /><br />I then marched on home, and for the third time today, marched up the three flights of stairs.<br /><br /><br />Thank you Christopher Columbus.<br />.Ms. Shttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08096350900633913730noreply@blogger.com4